Wednesday 26 December 2012

Dance the night away!

Posted by Nuyul Aishah Parker at 16:52 0 comments
Like any mat salleh wedding, I want to do a wedding dance. But being Ramdan, who is overly shy about this idea just because he paiseh, I told him its only once in a life time! So, why not give in all the paiseh-ness he have and dance on our wedding night!

We be having a wedding dinner especially for Ramdan's friends and families over at his place the night after our solemnisation. I am still trying to figure out our itenary for our wedding, though. It all seems so short timed, where I need to organise time for our photo taking too!

Okay back to our wedding dinner;
I am still trying to convince my overly shy fiance to dance for our dinner night. BUT! Yes, theres a but. His family is not having their typical deejay. His family has already booked a pancaragam(?) which is Sri Mahligai for their entertainment side. I am still unsure if they are able to perform songs that I have planned for the dance. I need to find out about that soon, because, we need to practise the dance too. But all is just planning. Because I have this feeling of that there wont be any dance due to many things that could not be achieved on the night itself.


Sidetrack, I am still very much obsessed with wearing boots for our wedding day. Look at how beautiful it is! There was a wedding exhibition over at Singapore Expo over the long weekend, but sadly, I did not go. I am very much mad at the thought of not going due to personal reasons though. I could have add more ideas to my wedding day and probably engage on a decoration service provider.


And to my only one; I am sorry recently I have been throwing numerous of bitch fits and tantrums. You, no doubt, stood by me taking it all in. I shall understand better that you are working your hard ass off for our sake because nowadays you work like 12 hours every single day.  I hope we spend some quality time together soon since it has been so long since we purely just have fun and laugh and the world wait for us.

Lotsa love,
Nuyul Aishah

Sunday 23 December 2012

Sidekick

Posted by Nuyul Aishah Parker at 17:41 0 comments
My kind of wedding theme for myself and my own bridesmaid. Boots, flowers and dirty places.

Other than the fact I hate to put on heels on my wedding day, I chose boots because I find it more appealing to have a country theme. I want my bridesmaid to feel all the excitement and feel pretty and having the attention to on my day. I dont have tons of girlfriends, you see. But I have in mind a few I want to 'propse' to become my bridesmaid with all expense paid by me of course. And I pray hopefully they accept the proposal! Haha.

For myself, bridesmaid are important. To make my wedding day a smooth journey. I believe in some of the girl friends I have for now that they are excited as me when it comes to wedding. Other than all that, they are the ones I trust and no doubt, ones that I love and have with me by my side.

I basically dont have a theme for my own wedding, because I have yet to decide on a decor service. But hopefully I have one by next year, so I can sort all ideas and a new to do list.

How many organise I have, I think it probably be just for display purposes. I can sit down and think and pen down my thoughts. Haha. So by blogging, I hope it can help me through my preparations and all. Since I am known to be bad at organising for myself, whats more for a wedding! My fiance's side has made tons of preparations much more than I do,to be honest. I must always remind myself of the days we are left, and to do an estimated timeline till end of 2013.

A few more days to a new year, and I hope everyone of you have a good year ahead and enjoy the last bit with tons of love and care shower for you guys. Sidetrack,ehem, and a few days left till yours truly birthday. Hahaha.

Xoxo(kental I know),
Nuyul Aishah

Thursday 20 December 2012

Hello friday!

Posted by Nuyul Aishah Parker at 18:28 0 comments
Good morning Friday! Other than the fact, I am feeling kinda shitty and mood-less today, I try to be productive as much as I could. Been sick on and off for past two weeks;probably one of the main reason why I am on a cranky mode. I promise I will sort out ideas for my dream weddings, and put it up here for keep sake.

As many, or probably some may know, I got engaged on the 5th Of May 2012. So basically my happily ever after is slowly starting. I personally despised the idea of some teens may be thinking that engagement is nothing much. It does means a whole lot to me, because firstly, not only it helps you both to secure each other's feeling together, it helps tighten the bond between each family. Like any other princess, I want those important in my life to witness my happy and special moments. Personally, engagement also helps us to secure us, financially. Having to come up with budgets, and whats not need to be set aside for not just wedding, also after marriage as a family.

Truth be told, its not always rainbows and butterflies. But I always believe that every time I have trouble sleeping at night, it is a lesson learnt. I am the simple plain Jane where I think crying your heart is not wrong,if it makes you better and stronger.

I actually wanted to share about what I planned for my brides maid and the groom's bestmen, but since I dont feel all hype right now, I shall do it on the later post. Have a blissful Friday, and enjoy your weekend, beautiful people!

Nuyul Aishah

Tuesday 18 December 2012

Of Preps and Ideas

Posted by Nuyul Aishah Parker at 01:44 0 comments
One thing I am very much excited about is my wedding day! Who is not excited, you tell me. By far, plans are already in placed, alhamdulillah. Some of our checklists has already been cleared, which is a very much important thing for us ladies because I fairly think, we have the major responsibility of having things in place, at just the right time.

I personally love the idea or the fact of a Muslim marriage. Where the father's bride, so called passed the responsibility to his son in law. The fact where we know us Muslims cant have any adultery actions with anyone but our own partner which is legal by Muslim law. The tradition of marriage to have our family and friends look at us as the 'king and queen of the day.' The fact that another man is taking over the responsibility of our father.

I have always dream of a perfect wedding. But I am not one who likes to spend too over just to please others' eyes for that one day. Thus, I rather have it simple and sweet. Likewise, its another person's perception how a perfect wedding may seems like. Let's see of what are the main thing me and my fiance had settled with for our wedding in 2014. I know, 2014 seems so long, but I believe it will come sooner than expected.

Bridal Services

We clinched a deal with this Bridal service provider during their exhibition over at Singapore Expo last October. We thought it was fairly a good deal for us,thus agreeing to it since my fiance gave me the green light. Side note, you guys must know my fiance, I shall address him as Ramdan, he is a very choosy person. I will not have a final decision unless he say yes. He has to see thoroughly what each service provider can equipped us then make a decision.

Our bridal service provider is Misyaz Bridal. You can look through their page here. I think fairly based on their portfolios they are reasonably affordable for us and also not to amateur. I am still looking through their page and feedbacks from others via facebook and other social networking sites. I have yet to actually meet them personally at their place for a one to one discussion;which we decide to meet early next year. So, thus I could not say much. Hopefully I have an update in a month time for my bridal service.

Photography & Videography

This, Ramdan is very much particular about. I showed him tons of works from various photographers and videographers, but he took quite a long time to decide on one. He is very much particular about video works. We settled for Diziq Video Motion Pictures. You can find them via facebook here or you want to watch their video motion works here. I personally think their work is quite nice and fine. It is abit pricey, but since Ramdan has decided we take that, we could work something out.

We personally feel photography and videography is an important aspect in our wedding. Thus, we don't mind forking out a little bit more for that part. Since other aspect, we have discounts and lesser price than usuals.

Food

For our dining menu for our two day events, we both are engaging the same caterer; Abdul Rahman Catering or something. I am not that sure of this because fortunately for me, my parents are sponsoring for my food area! Which is a huge relief for me, because this part right here is the main money that's going to be fork out. My future mother in law decided to engage the same, cause the food is delicious and highly recommended but probably just a tad too pricey than the norm.

The other important thing such as decorations, wedding car, wedding cakes and whats not has yet to be confirmed. But I love to share to others about a thing or two, because like a bride to be like myself, it is abit  difficult to actually suit for us Singaporean Malay bride to be. Tons of ideas for my wedding actually; some I hope and pray I have the money and time to make it happen the other is probably just fantasy.

I don't want this to be a bit lengthy post. As I think it is getting too naggy. I shall continue about what I plan or have an idea or two about my wedding dinner! Oh yes, I have a wedding dinner over at Ramdan's side the night after our solemnisation ceremony.

I shall blog soon about some other ideas I have in mind for my wedding. I am still trying to do up a blogskin but all failed. I lost all the touch of making a blog beautiful. This will do for now!

Lotsa love,
Nuyul Aishah

Monday 17 December 2012

A fresh new start

Posted by Nuyul Aishah Parker at 18:10 0 comments
Just because I simply miss blogging, I decide to give this a new shot!
I used to be a blog freak from blogspot, livejournal, onsugar and other whats not.
Then when I wanted to do one,(I wanted to settle for onsugar initially!) everything is totally different!
I felt like a gundu. I used to be a pro at html and always a problem solver anything about webs and computers!

Well, enough of that. So officially introducing myself. I am a twenty one year old fat girl with an annoying laugh. Haha,no I am not asking for sympathy like "no,you're not fat," and other bla bla bla. I just love to call myself that cause other than that is fact, I want to make others feel open up with me.

I am currently at work, and I do not have much of inspirations for now. The main impulsion of to start a new blog is to take note of my life time line to be kept as memory. Because no doubt, my life now is already beautiful. Most posts are mainly about me, warning first eh if you dont want to be disgusted about how much I leave detailed about my life here. On another hand, I could actually improve my language better!

I dont expect readers,but if I do have one, do leave a word or two and I could holla at you!

With lotsa love,
Nuyul Aishah
 

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